Relationship

Relationship

These days relationship has been "the talk of the town", especially among adults.But the kind of relationship i am going to talk about is not only between a guy and girl, but as a whole.

Actually what is relationship? There might be different answers from different person with different perspectives. Simply i want to define it as the interaction between two people.( two people means two people , that might be from family, friends or outsiders.) The core of the relationship is not as simple as the definition of it sounds. To maintain the relationship between different people, we should act according to the situation that may be either love, respect, hatred or just for the sake of formalities.

The status quo is not maintained here as well, the face of this interaction changes with time. as with time people changes, their expectation changes, their choices changes and so with the demands. if the relation is not updated with time the intensity of it slowly gets faded and again another formal relation starts, if the spice of misunderstanding is mixed within it, hatred relationship comes into exist.

Everyone have expectation from others, either that expectation be of love, respect, hate etc. everytime the expectation cannot be fulfilled,leading to the problem. And here communication plays a major role. if well communicated about the issue between the people about how and why, the issue gets settled down adn more strong bond is created.

However dur to ego or sometimes people call it self-respect, they dont talk about it, likewise the previous situation the interaction is taken to a new level, of course that won't be positive. And with time even a small incident may "add oil in fire".
it is complex right? Actually teh more deeper we go the more curls are there.
Though i am no good in keeping relations with people. Even i would like to lay some simple rules for smoother relations. and some of them are:-
  • Be honest to your relation
  • Respect the people you need to respect.
  • Always clear the misunderstanding (if you would be third world war  oohh!!!!!)
  • if have any problem with the people say it to their face, don't backbite
If only, these things are followed, we can take our relation to a new height.


Seema Sharma Pangeni

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